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“Christ died for men precisely because men are not worth dying for; to make them worth it.”

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2785-1-charles-spurgeon-historical“Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Savior, the Lord Jesus, for in Him are all things.”

Charles Spurgeon

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2785-1-charles-spurgeon-historical“The cross rejected is the clearest proof of the heart depraved.”

Charles Spurgeon

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2785-1-charles-spurgeon-historical“Have you no wish for others to be saved? Then you are not saved yourself. Be sure of that.”

Charles Spurgeon

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joan-of-arc-dante-charles-gabriel-rossetti“To sacrifice what you are and to live without belief, that is a fate more terrible than dying.”

Joan of Arc

 

Joan  was born a peasant girl in eastern France. Claiming divine guidance, she led the French army to several important victories during the Hundred Years’ War, including the siege of Orleans which had been going on under military commanders for more than 8 months and which Joan ended in only 9 days, a feat which later paved the way for the coronation of Charles VII of France. She was captured and transferred to the English in exchange for money, put on trial by the pro-English Bishop Pierre Cauchon for charges of “insubordination and heterodoxy”, and was burned at the stake for heresy when she was only 19 years old.

Twenty-five years after her martyrdom, an inquisitorial court authorized by Pope Callixtus III examined the trial, pronounced her innocent, and declared her a martyr. Joan of Arc was beatified in 1909 and canonized in 1920. She is – along with St. Denis, St. Martin of Tours, St. Louis IX, and St. Theresa of Lisieux – one of the patron saints of France.

I have not discovered such courage and resolve displayed through history by someone so young.

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“Pray, and let God worry.”

C.S. Lewis

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“It is not a question of God sending us to hell. In each of us there is something growing, which will BE hell unless it is nipped in the bud.”

C.S. Lewis

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Speaking the truth in love…or is that really so?


Many people who believe that their calling in life is to “speak the truth in love” appear to believe that the speaking of any truth is by definition loving because they care enough about that person to give them the truth. However, by definition, if we are admonished to speak the truth in love that means that it is indeed possible to speak truth in a manner that is not loving and simply pointing to the truth is a not necessarily a defense for how we speak it.

I Cor 13 (the love chapter) makes it clear that there is truth that can be spoken without love and when it is done, the impact of those words or deeds are so empty and self-defeating as to have been better off not being spoken at all.

This isn’t an exhaustive list by any means, but these are some questions I ask myself when I’m tempted to speak “truth” to others which I believe they desperately need to hear and heed.

1. Are these words really true? It seems elementary that they would be if we’re speaking truth, but very often I have to confess that things I have said in passion toward someone else have been “true” but perhaps not the whole truth or perhaps the truth about something from my perspective that leaves some things out that might damage my point or make me personally look bad. When that’s the case, I may not really be speaking truth at all. I may be twisting or using the truth to win an argument or make myself look or feel better at somebody else’s expense.

2. Are these words really necessary? The speaking of truth, if it is done in love takes into account the state of the person it is directed toward and their ability or willingness to hear them. There can be a timely element to truth that makes it more likely to be received. When an alcoholic for example is laying drunk, it may seem a perfect time to tell them, “You’re an alcoholic and you need to sober up!” The very state of their drunkenness however, pretty much ensures that the message cannot be received. Perhaps the more loving thing to do might be to provide a bed and a room along with some oversight (and I’m not speaking about constant enabling here) to where the person is sober and then in that window of opportunity then take the time to speak the truth. There’s are some “truths” that in that context may never have an appropriate time to be spoken. Just because something is true doesn’t necessarily mean it’s always the right time to speak or even that those words should be spoken at all if the impact of them is not going to benefit a person or point them toward something better in their lives.

3. Are these words kind? Kindness can be tough at times and there are hard things to hear and to say that may in the long run be kind. Kindness in this regard however, elevates the needs of the person hearing over the wants and needs of the person speaking. There are things too that a person may need to say that is primarily for their own benefit, but that doesn’t minimize the need to say them in a way that takes into consideration the other person(s) in terms of their ability to hear what is being said.

Many people who hide behind the banner of “speaking the truth in love” seem to have convinced themselves that any truth is loving simply because it is truth. That type of view is toxic and often the people who espouse it are in fact defending their own egos, their own judgmental character, and equating themselves as the measure of truth in other people’s lives. Better perhaps to step back and think just a little bit and perhaps pass things through the 3 filters above and consider where the love it, before pushing such “truth” upon others.

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By Bart Breen

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“Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

 

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gibran-potrait“The just man is close to the people’s heart, but the merciful is close to the heart of God.

Khalil Gibran

 

Gibran (pronounced Jib-Raan) was a Lebanese-American artist, poet, and writer. He is chiefly known in the English-speaking world for his 1923 book The Prophet, an early example of inspirational fiction including a series of philosophical essays written in poetic-English prose.

Gibran is the third best-selling poet of all time, behind Shakespeare and Lao-Tzu.